Gina was previously married to her father before marrying Pat in 1994. Gina Neely was married for 24 years before ending her marriage to Pat Neely.Gina is now the star of the new Bravo reality show, “To Rome for Love.”According to Madame Noire, the show follows several Black women as they try to find love in Italy. On the show she looked so happy, but really wasn’t. The TV show became bigger than the marriage.” He became more of a business partner rather than her husband and she finally left. "I run across a lot of people, men in particular, who are going through what I went through four years ago [...] I know it looks bleak now, but I tell them, ‘You just never know what wonderful things are in store for you.’"He met Tamika Parks on a cruise in 2015. One of two daughters of Gina, Spenser, 29, was born before her mother wed her now ex-husband of 20 years, Pat Neely. Pat and Gina Neely ran Down Home With the Neelys, a Food Network program covering basics like how to make a delicious mac and cheese or how to turn basic chores like pulling the membranes off of sparerib into an opportunity for light-hearted flirtation. The two met back in high school and stayed together for most of their adult years.“I don’t wish him any harm, but he’s never reached out to me… I guess he’s well? Although she was worried about her girls, Gina is slowly getting her life where she wants it.

Our girls are older so we’re not really co-parenting or anything," she added.Pat found his soul mate just one year after Gina had left him.All too aware of the dangers of leading a public life, he decided to keep a low profile this time. They had their first daughter, Spenser in 1989, who was soon followed by Shelbi in 1995.

I would cry in my pillow at night. 56k Followers, 1,016 Following, 4,287 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from Gina Neely (@ginaneely) Pat Neely is a father again, in love, and living his best life. Gina gave much consideration to leaving Pat on several occasions, but she didn't dare to carry it through. They opted for a small, cozy wedding attended by close friends and family only, and they kept quiet about the birth of their first child, Eriel.During the early days, Pat would work as the owner of the infamous Neely's Bar-B-Que in Memphis, TN, while Gina made a living as a bank manager. The program offered rare insight into what a good marriage involves — or so it seemed. Soon after, the couple welcomed their daughter Shelbi, now 23. I would cry anywhere anybody couldn’t see me. She said, “I was always seen as this person that has it together.